Thursday 11 May 2017

POEM: ABCs Of Loving Your Husband

In The Name Of Allah
The Most Gracious The Most Merciful


ABCs of loving your spouse, as his wife -
A: Love your husband for Allah’s sake, firstly.
B: Do your best to be with him day and night.
C: Care for him. Cook his fave. Miss him daily.

D: Long to see each other in dreams and thoughts.
E: Strengthen faith/Emaan and love escalates.
F: Faithfully deal with him with fervent love.
G: Be grateful and guide him to the Straight Way.

H: Help him in what’s right. His side always hear.
I: Inspire your man by never giving up.
J: Joke with him often. Know his strengths and fears.
K: Kiss. Caress. Cuddle. Hold him tight and hug.

L: Look at him lovingly. Overlook flaws.
M: Beautify with make-up or sweet manners.
N: Note his good points. Nice memories recall.
O: Observe your spouse. Understand each other.

P: Pray for him, include him in your prayers.
Q: Even if wed to four, you’re still his queen.
R: Respect him. Remember all his favors.
S: Stay steadfast. Ensure you’re special to him.

T: Thank each other. Love is thinking often.
U: Undervalue pride. To unite be strong.
V: Value each other’s rights and your husband.
W: Wise in speech/silence. Pardon wrongs.

X: Be that good to shun envy. ‘X’ bad traits.
Y: Though wed to more than one, your man is yours.
Z: Zealously be his wife. Appreciate.
Love spouse more than desires. Love Allah foremost.

When you love for Allah's sake, your love becomes more sincere & the struggles that come with loving become easier. When you love for Allah you're always willing to forgive each other hoping in jannah you'll be together.
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Best Joy Of This World Is A Righteous Wife:
www.islamqa.info/en/171295
Islamic Ruling Regarding Marriage:
www.islamswomen.com/marriage/fiqh_of_marriage_8.php
Tips On How To Be A Good Wife:
www.idealmuslimah.com/family/wife/3048-how-to-be-a-good-wife.html

May Allah Almighty make us among His righteous friends whom He will welcome in Jannatul Firdaus near Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.

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Wasalaam~
Mariam M.