Saturday 27 August 2016

SONNET: What Past Friendships Can Teach Us

In The Name Of Allah
The Most Gracious The Most Merciful


As I pass by old friends' profiles online -
Some secrets divulge and I realize:
Some friends move on as their paths change with time,
Others misguided by their loathsome pride.
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"Friends" who quickly leave never meant to stay;
True friends stick by you though they're miles away.
Through some lost friendships Allah wants you safe -
From bad influence or sins that remain.
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As people change, ensure you do what's right,
Stay on the Straight Way towards Allah's Light.
With sinful friends don't be preoccupied,
With dignity walk away from their lies.
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To long-lost friends: Though not close here I'll be,
Willing to forgive and guide with mercy.

Guiding Your Friends To Be With Allah
 www.sunnahonline.com/library/contemporary-issues/111-bring-your-friends-closer-to-allah-12-tips-for-muslim-youth

To Stay Friends Or Walk Away From Certain People
www.islamqa.info/en/106441

5 Reasons why some people may no longer 
connect with each other:
1] Misunderstanding on one or both sides which was not settled properly, due to arrogance or inability to understand each other's point of view.
2] Deliberate lack of interest or communication between the two parties, either because of too many differences or doubting that the other may not accept them as friends.
3] When one is right and the other wrong, when one has become religious and the other is still addicted to certain sins, when one is humble and the other arrogant - good usually cannot get along with what is bad.
4] Change of ways, goals and interests - when you can't find each other agreeing on the same thing it may be difficult to click and bond.
5] Forgetfulness - the person you try to reconnect with on facebook may have forgotten who you are but should you ever meet again Insha-Allah personally they may befriend you like they did before.


Why Allah is The Only True Friend whose Love and Friendship we can share:
Allah the Most Forgiving readily forgives you so long as you constantly return to Him. No matter where you are, what time it is and what mood you're in, Allah the All-Knowing is always there to listen to you and grant you solutions with wisdom. Unlike some people who get tired of too many requests, Allah loves you more as you cry to Him more, talk to Him more often and say your du'as.

Allah the Almighty knows best.

May Allah the Most Merciful accept all our good deeds, forgive all our wrongdoings, answer our du'as and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in Jannatul Firdaus next to Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam. Allahumma Innaka 'Afuwwun Kareemun tuhibbul 'afwa fa'fu 'annaa. Ameen.


Wasalaam~
Mariam <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab

Monday 22 August 2016

PICTURES: Love Messages For Husband And Wife

In The Name Of Allah
The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

Wedding gift idea: Mugs for husband and wife

"I love my husband" and "I love my wife"
Message in Arabic language

In English language:


Other love messages you may choose
(to print on mugs, t-shirts, photo frames, fans, bags, pillows, key holders and other accessories)
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"Blissfully married" "Joyfully married"
"Me with my husband" "Me with my wife"
"Married to my other half"
"Stay married stay blessed"
"Keep calm stay married"
"Always with my husband/wife" "Married and marvelous"
"Marriage is Sunnah"
"M: Mercy • A: Affection • R: Responsibility • R: Remembrance • I: Inspiration • A: Adventures • G: Guidance • E: Encourage"

May Allah the Most Merciful always bless our marriages, forgive all our wrongdoings, accept all our good deeds, grant us more wisdom and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in Jannatul Firdaus near Allah and His noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.

Wasalaam~
Mariam <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab

Wisdom Islamic School Philippines
Old Wisdom Islamic School Youtube Channel

Thursday 18 August 2016

ISLAMIC NOTES: Sonnet On Why I Still Love My Only Spouse And 3 Tips On Maintaining Your Love For Someone

In The Name Of Allah
The Most Gracious The Most Merciful


To the man whom Allah gave me to guide,
The only guy I can take as my spouse:
From your wife your feelings you cannot hide,
When you're hurt, amused, worried, or aroused.

With Allah's Mercy I understand you,
I know some of your acts may be enforced,
So for Allah's sake I'll always love you,
Love's doors to forgive you I will not close.

God is our Witness to our marriage true.
Why I still love you Allah rightly knows;
He knows I understand all that you do.
On Judgment Day all truths will be exposed.

May Allah forgive you dear Nomayri,
And bless our marriage, and my loyalty.
Ameen.

Note:
Tips on how not to hate someone you're obliged to love:

1] Understand your relations with this person. Who are you to them and they to you? In what way are they of value? When it comes to marriage, one spouse should at least be in the upper hand of being willing to forgive while avoiding bad traits such as arrogance and ingratitude.
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2] If you want to love this person still, remember all the good times you've had together, their favors done to you, and appreciate the sweet memories of you two, or recall the many common likes you both share.
What pleasant qualities do they have which you can't help but admire? Can you count the times they made you laugh or smile?
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3] You can love a Muslim for Allah's sake if the benefits of being close friends with them outweigh whatever mistake they may have done. Know that all actions will inshaAllah be rewarded according to their actual intentions and motive.
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May Allah the Most Merciful always forgive us, accept all our good deeds, guide us to all that He loves, and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in
Jannatul Firdaus near Him and His noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.

Wasalaam~
Mariam Mababaya <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab

Wisdom Islamic School Philippines/Saudi Arabia
www.youtube.com/infowishes
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Saturday 13 August 2016

SONNET: The Insecure V.S. The Confident

In The Name Of Allah
The Most Gracious The Most Merciful


When this shopper bumps their cart into yours,
Or some salespeople are late to respond,
And they don't say sorry for seeming coarse,
Note - they're insecure or plain ignorant.
.:.
They witness you're better so they act ‪‎rude,
They're freaks of nature uneducated.
To be unkind is to be insecure.
Bad traits from the jealous are expected.
.:.
The confident ones like to lift you up,
Enjoy seeing you smile, can give advice,
At anyone's mishaps would never laugh,
Are wisely nice and can apologize.
.:.
Stay friendly, confident for Allah's sake,
Grateful that you're with those on the Right Way.

Some Tips For Good Communication With People
www.productivemuslim.com/sunnah-communicate-effectively/

Some Ahadith Regarding Good Manners In Islam
 www.islamicity.com/mosque/sunnah/bukhari/073.sbt.html

Allah the Almighty knows best.

May Allah the Most Merciful accept all our good deeds, forgive all our wrongdoings, answer our du'as and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in Jannatul Firdaus next to Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam. Allahumma Innaka 'Afuwwun Kareemun tuhibbul 'afwa fa'fu 'annaa. Ameen.

Remember all Muslims in your du'as :)

Wasalaam~
Mariam M. <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab Mababaya