Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts

Sunday, 31 December 2017

POEM: New Lessons On Love I've Learned This Year

In The Name Of Allah
The Most Gracious The Most Merciful


New lessons on love I've learned within this year,
To inspire Muslims to keep those they hold dear.
One: Even though you may find some attractive,
To your spouse you stay loyal and supportive.

It's possible to like some to a degree,
Yet you love your spouse more with much loyalty.
Two: Don't overlook subtle signs of true love,
Like when for Salah you wake each other up,

Or when you give each other hugs and kisses,
And when closeness to your spouse you can't resist.
Three: Love stories of others should not threaten,
But to push you to have your marriage strengthened.

Be happy for other Muslims' marriage lives,
Focus on succeeding as good husband/wife.
Four: You know your love is genuine and real
When all emotions your lover lets you feel,

Hating when you miss them, loving their best traits,
Excited to see them, sad when they're away.
Five: Your love is a gift if it lifts Imaan,
Blessed if it helps you patiently understand,

Directs you to thanking Allah night and day,
And guides you to contentment when you're dismayed.
If something about your soulmate bothers you,
You'll still fall for their other sweet attributes.

So marriage lasts longer, do it for Allah,
Marry for Allah's sake. Marriage is Sunnah.
Being married doesn't spell out 'perfect life',
There's no perfection except in Paradise.
___________________

Allah the Almighty said: 
"They (your wives) are a clothing (covering) for you and you too are a clothing (covering) for them."
 [Qur'an 2:187]

May Allah Almighty make us among His righteous friends whom He will welcome in Jannatul Firdaus near Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.

www.youtube.com/infowishes (old youtube channel)
Wasalaam~
Mariam M.

Thursday, 16 November 2017

POEM: Love Letter From Wife To Husband

In The Name Of Allah
The Most Gracious The Most Merciful


Love letter, for Allah's sake, from me to my husband,
Who if he may not read this then perhaps in Heaven:
Dear spouse, I'll always love you despite the long distance.
When far, you roam in my thoughts and imaginations.

As my other half, I can't think of separation,
Because I promised to love you since our engagement.
From Allah I long to be your treasure and blessing,
For your struggles, for striving, and for being Muslim.

In your absence, you teach me about independence,
Loyalty, faithfulness and most beautiful patience.
When present, you gift me with all sorts of emotions,
From being observant of romance and contentment.

To some, you may be the wrong one - to me, you're handsome,
You're just perfect for me the way you are each season.
While I may like others, our love is an exception,
It's a journey of attractions with myriad lessons.

Through loving you I learned to be loyal, forgiving,
Patient, closer to God Allah and more determined.
Since our connection, I won't think of separation -
Always I'll love you until Allah brings you to Him.
___________________

May Allah Almighty make us among His righteous friends whom He will welcome in Jannatul Firdaus near Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.

www.youtube.com/infowishes (old youtube channel)
Wasalaam~
Mariam M.

Monday, 31 July 2017

POEM: Notes On Marriage Proposals

In The Name Of Allah
The Most Gracious The Most Merciful


Lessons from my past to share for Allah’s sake,
Reasons why I rejected some proposals -
From one of them I disliked his baby-faced,
My ignorance back then was quite colossal,

He was to work in Madinah at that time,
I was at fault for judging him by his looks -
Thirteen years old then, needed loads of advice,
 Bulimic teen, rebellious, misunderstood.

Another proposal from a childhood friend,
Who similarly came to our house to meet,
Said no to his request which I now resent,
Simply because he was years younger than me.

My dear parents - Allah yarhamhum. Ameen.
Turned down another guy’s proposal for me,
In U.S. he worked while I stayed in Saudi,
Not seeming pious then, they thought he’d mislead.

At eighteen or so I made a big mistake
Of rejecting this man’s proposal wrongly.
To memorize the whole Qur’an he did aim,
From a good family, friends, Pakistani.

The silly reason why I denied again,
Was my assumption he was too soft and shy,
Blame if you like, I was ignorant back then,
I did many wrongs and couldn’t tell what’s right.

Later on Allah taught me about Islam,
Alhamdulillah through learning I was changed.
Value of marriage I loved to understand,
Noble traits like patience made me change my ways.

At twenty I was married to my cousin,
Our marriage though not perfect brought forth lessons.
At twenty-six or so I became first wife,
Loved my husband for Allah more than desires.

Tips regarding marriage proposals, to guide:
Pray the Istikhaarah prayer then decide.
To say yes or no it’s every woman’s right,
While recalling not to judge upon first sight.

Don’t do the wrongs I did. Do learn from mistakes.
On feeling attracted, choose the halal way,
Marry for Allah’s sake, complete your deen/faith,
Keep learning and applying Islam each day.

To parents or guardians of those who’ll marry:
Don’t expect perfection from anybody,
As you yourselves have flaws like everybody.
Don’t demand huge dowries. Make marriage easy.

In-laws don’t need to be from the same country,
Nor be the same socially / financially.
Beauty in diversity / large families.
Understand your kids, they’re the ones to marry.

Marriage is a blessed gift which Allah made
To unite souls who’ll exchange love lawfully,
A journey of loving lessons to God’s Way,
One of the means that strengthen spiritually.
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May Allah Almighty make us among His righteous friends whom He will welcome in Jannatul Firdaus near Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.

Muslim Marrying Up To Four In Islam
Accepting Husband's Choice To Marry Up To Four Wives

www.youtube.com/infowishes (old youtube channel)
Wasalaam~

Friday, 7 July 2017

POEM: May Our Marriage Motivate. Ameen.

In The Name Of Allah
The Most Gracious The Most Merciful


Dear husband, more words of love for Allah’s sake,
You may not read these, but in Jannah someday,
With Allah’s Will you’ll know what I used to say,
How I truly felt, missing you night and day.

Though you may be wed to up to four I’ll stay,
Even though we don’t see each other always,
Although we’re both busy and you’re far away,
For God, as your first wife I choose to remain.

I’ve loved and love lots, my love for you is strange,
Eccentric yet magnetic in many ways.
I can’t divorce as it’s hard to separate,
Promised to stay loyal since I was engaged.

For you to marry up to four it’s okay,
Accountable for all the choices we make,
I choose to be patient with you for God’s sake,
Contentedly married to you come what may.

Dear husband, that Allah loves you I do pray,
For your success in both worlds I supplicate,
Pray our love reforms us and strengthens our faith,
May this connection inspire and motivate. Ameen.
___________________

May Allah Almighty make us among His righteous friends whom He will welcome in Jannatul Firdaus near Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.

Muslim Marrying Up To Four In Islam
Accepting Husband's Choice To Marry Up To Four Wives

www.youtube.com/infowishes (old youtube channel)
Wasalaam~

Tuesday, 20 June 2017

POEM: A Prayer In Laylatul Qadr

In The Name Of Allah
The Most Gracious The Most Merciful


Dear Allah the Most Kind, Most Just and Most Near,
Yet again I’m here, I call on You, in tears.
As I raise my hands facing down so humbly,
I pray: “Allahumma Innaka ‘Afuwwun Tuhebbul ‘afwa fa’fu ‘annee.”
Dear Allah Most Forgiving, forgive me please.

Dear Allah, I’m overwhelmed, stressed, tired and weak.
Your Mercy and Guidance O’ Allah I seek.
Allah, I miss my loved ones and family,
That I can’t take care of them all I’m sorry.
Please alleviate my struggles and worries.

I’m sorry I didn’t do much, Allah Dear,
Some bad traits of mine have not yet disappeared.
So beautify my character, guide me please,
Cause me to overcome obstacles with ease,
And make the Path to Jannah ever easy.

O’ Allah, for every moment, stay with me,
Enlighten through lessons and prophetic dreams.
Keep forgiving me when I slack frequently,
The Way to Your Love don’t allow me to leave.
Dear Allah, Only You I worship daily.

O’ Allah, please help Muslims worldwide in need,
Please fix our state as we bow to You Only.
With what You bestowed inspire us to be pleased,
That we see You in Paradise please decree,
Our good deeds accept, and our sins forgive, please.

Allahumma Innaka ‘Afuwwun Tuhebbul ‘afwa fa’fu ‘annee. Ameen.
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May Allah Almighty make us among His righteous friends whom He will welcome in Jannatul Firdaus near Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.

Laylatul Qadr Tips [ProductiveMuslim.com]
Regarding Laylatul Qadr

www.youtube.com/infowishes (old youtube channel)
Wasalaam~

Thursday, 11 May 2017

POEM: ABCs Of Loving Your Husband

In The Name Of Allah
The Most Gracious The Most Merciful


ABCs of loving your spouse, as his wife -
A: Love your husband for Allah’s sake, firstly.
B: Do your best to be with him day and night.
C: Care for him. Cook his fave. Miss him daily.

D: Long to see each other in dreams and thoughts.
E: Strengthen faith/Emaan and love escalates.
F: Faithfully deal with him with fervent love.
G: Be grateful and guide him to the Straight Way.

H: Help him in what’s right. His side always hear.
I: Inspire your man by never giving up.
J: Joke with him often. Know his strengths and fears.
K: Kiss. Caress. Cuddle. Hold him tight and hug.

L: Look at him lovingly. Overlook flaws.
M: Beautify with make-up or sweet manners.
N: Note his good points. Nice memories recall.
O: Observe your spouse. Understand each other.

P: Pray for him, include him in your prayers.
Q: Even if wed to four, you’re still his queen.
R: Respect him. Remember all his favors.
S: Stay steadfast. Ensure you’re special to him.

T: Thank each other. Love is thinking often.
U: Undervalue pride. To unite be strong.
V: Value each other’s rights and your husband.
W: Wise in speech/silence. Pardon wrongs.

X: Be that good to shun envy. ‘X’ bad traits.
Y: Though wed to more than one, your man is yours.
Z: Zealously be his wife. Appreciate.
Love spouse more than desires. Love Allah foremost.

When you love for Allah's sake, your love becomes more sincere & the struggles that come with loving become easier. When you love for Allah you're always willing to forgive each other hoping in jannah you'll be together.
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Best Joy Of This World Is A Righteous Wife:
www.islamqa.info/en/171295
Islamic Ruling Regarding Marriage:
www.islamswomen.com/marriage/fiqh_of_marriage_8.php
Tips On How To Be A Good Wife:
www.idealmuslimah.com/family/wife/3048-how-to-be-a-good-wife.html

May Allah Almighty make us among His righteous friends whom He will welcome in Jannatul Firdaus near Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.

www.youtube.com/infowishes (old youtube channel)
Wasalaam~
Mariam M.

Wednesday, 8 February 2017

POEM: First Wife - His Fighter In Love

In the Name of Allah
The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
    She loves God Allah first and foremost before her man,
    She loves her husband in ways Only God understands.
    She knows that to be his first wife is from Allah’s Plan,
    She’s his treasure, so she loves him as much as she can....
    💛
    He’s plain? In Jannah she knows he’ll be more good-looking.
    Not pious? She’s more than glad to teach him religion.
    They don’t talk always? In Jannah is their real meeting.
    Wed to two to four wives? It’s alright, she still loves him.
    💚
    She deserves better? She knows, yet she accepts God’s Will.
    He doesn’t see her enough? Jannah is Eternal.
    She loves him like she’s his gift from the Most Merciful,
    For God’s sake she loves, since the first time her love stays real.
    💛
    Aware of evil forces that try to split them up,
    Unwilling to comply with their desires, she still loves,
    She loves her husband stubbornly, though it may be tough,
    She won’t leave him to please their foes, thus she won’t give up.
    💚
    She’s a fighter in love, for Allah she loves truly.
    She loves her spouse till he departs this world peacefully,
    And if there’s a next one she’ll love him similarly -
    For now he’s her only man she loves so faithfully.
    💛
    When she loves, she loves for God, not just anybody.
    Her love life is a complex yet loving mystery,
    A puzzle to solve through sacrifice and poetry,
    A journey of lessons learned by those who love bravely.
    💚
    May our marriage be blessed by Allah the Almighty,
    May Allah Most Kind love us for our faith and good deeds,
    And for our striving May Allah fulfill our best dreams,
    May Allah prove all someday that it’s worth it. Ameen.
    💛
    Allah's beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam said: “If a woman offers her five daily prayers, fasts her month (Ramadan), guards her modesty and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: Enter Paradise by whichever of its gates you wish.”
    [Sahih Hadith]
    www.islamqa.info/en/171295
    May Allah the Most Merciful accept all our good deeds, forgive all our wrongdoings, answer our du'as and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in the uppermost level of Heaven Jannatul Firdaus next to Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam. Allahumma Innaka 'Afuwwun Kareemun tuhibbul 'afwa fa'fu 'annaa. Ameen.
    Wasalaam~
    Mariam​
    ______________________

    Monday, 23 January 2017

    POEM: These Tears That Fall May They Intercede

    In the Name of Allah
    The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

      ‘Allahu Akbar’ state these tears that fall,
      These tears that drizzle when to God I call,
      Talk to Allah with various emotions,
      Du’as depend on each situation.
      ~.~
      Tears that fall as I miss my dear parents,
      When I miss my husband, loved ones and friends,
      Remorseful of good deeds I neglected,
      By the Ummah’s current state dejected,
      ~.~
      I cry when I long to help but just can’t,
      When to Allah I return and repent,
      Seeking Allah’s Guidance, Love and Mercy,
      Mentioning Muslims in prayers daily.
      ~.~
      These tears fall too when sinners I pity,
      How they can afford to steal or mistreat,
      When Allah Almighty knows what they do,
      Knowing Allah’s Justice is swift and true.
      ~.~
      May Allah Most High forgive us always,
      Accept all our good deeds done for His sake,
      Make our tears among those that intercede
      To let us meet God in Jannah. Ameen.
      ~.~

      May Allah the Most Merciful accept all our good deeds, forgive all our wrongdoings, answer our du'as and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in the uppermost level of Heaven Jannatul Firdaus next to Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam. Allahumma Innaka 'Afuwwun Kareemun tuhibbul 'afwa fa'fu 'annaa. Ameen.
      Wasalaam~
      Mariam​
      ______________________

      Monday, 2 January 2017

      POEM: One Good Reason Why I Still Love Him

      In the Name of Allah
      The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

      Dear husband whom God sent as my other half,
      My muse, my motivation and first true love -
      A poem yet again though it’s not enough

      To let all know why on you I gave up not.


      Though there may be myriad reasons to dislike
      You and how you may not fulfill all my rights,
      There’s one good reason I’m still here day and night:
      I love God more than myself and my desires.


      I love you, husband, for Allah’s sake – it’s true.
      Grateful for all the good deeds you used to do,
      Not forgetful I’m a gift from God to you,
      Your subtle love for me you don’t need to prove.


      One good reason why I still love is patience,
      Knowing your wrongs are due to interference,
      Nosy involvement from those with aversion –
      Won’t please my foes by choosing separation.

      No worries, if God Wills, in Jannah we’ll meet.
      Jannah Paradise is where bliss is really,
      Eternal perfection without fakery,
      Real home of the righteous, steadfast and sincere.

      One reason I share my story is to teach
      And motivate all to embrace loyalty,
      Which lets you see when neglect is forced or real,
      And keeps you vigilant of spies who envy.

      May Allah the Almighty and Most Loving
      Accept our good deeds and forgive all our sins.
      Ameen. May Allah make us of those destined
      To meet Him in Jannah smilingly. Ameen.
      True love for Allah's sake does not give up easily~

      May Allah the Most Merciful accept all our good deeds, forgive all our wrongdoings, answer our du'as and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in the uppermost level of Heaven Jannatul Firdaus next to Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam. Allahumma Innaka 'Afuwwun Kareemun tuhibbul 'afwa fa'fu 'annaa. Ameen.
      Wasalaam~
      Mariam​
      ______________________

      Monday, 22 August 2016

      PICTURES: Love Messages For Husband And Wife

      In The Name Of Allah
      The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

      Wedding gift idea: Mugs for husband and wife

      "I love my husband" and "I love my wife"
      Message in Arabic language

      In English language:


      Other love messages you may choose
      (to print on mugs, t-shirts, photo frames, fans, bags, pillows, key holders and other accessories)
      ~•~ ~•~
      "Blissfully married" "Joyfully married"
      "Me with my husband" "Me with my wife"
      "Married to my other half"
      "Stay married stay blessed"
      "Keep calm stay married"
      "Always with my husband/wife" "Married and marvelous"
      "Marriage is Sunnah"
      "M: Mercy • A: Affection • R: Responsibility • R: Remembrance • I: Inspiration • A: Adventures • G: Guidance • E: Encourage"

      May Allah the Most Merciful always bless our marriages, forgive all our wrongdoings, accept all our good deeds, grant us more wisdom and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in Jannatul Firdaus near Allah and His noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.

      Wasalaam~
      Mariam <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab

      Wisdom Islamic School Philippines
      Old Wisdom Islamic School Youtube Channel

      Thursday, 18 August 2016

      ISLAMIC NOTES: Sonnet On Why I Still Love My Only Spouse And 3 Tips On Maintaining Your Love For Someone

      In The Name Of Allah
      The Most Gracious The Most Merciful


      To the man whom Allah gave me to guide,
      The only guy I can take as my spouse:
      From your wife your feelings you cannot hide,
      When you're hurt, amused, worried, or aroused.

      With Allah's Mercy I understand you,
      I know some of your acts may be enforced,
      So for Allah's sake I'll always love you,
      Love's doors to forgive you I will not close.

      God is our Witness to our marriage true.
      Why I still love you Allah rightly knows;
      He knows I understand all that you do.
      On Judgment Day all truths will be exposed.

      May Allah forgive you dear Nomayri,
      And bless our marriage, and my loyalty.
      Ameen.

      Note:
      Tips on how not to hate someone you're obliged to love:

      1] Understand your relations with this person. Who are you to them and they to you? In what way are they of value? When it comes to marriage, one spouse should at least be in the upper hand of being willing to forgive while avoiding bad traits such as arrogance and ingratitude.
      ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
      2] If you want to love this person still, remember all the good times you've had together, their favors done to you, and appreciate the sweet memories of you two, or recall the many common likes you both share.
      What pleasant qualities do they have which you can't help but admire? Can you count the times they made you laugh or smile?
      ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
      3] You can love a Muslim for Allah's sake if the benefits of being close friends with them outweigh whatever mistake they may have done. Know that all actions will inshaAllah be rewarded according to their actual intentions and motive.
      ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
      May Allah the Most Merciful always forgive us, accept all our good deeds, guide us to all that He loves, and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in
      Jannatul Firdaus near Him and His noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.

      Wasalaam~
      Mariam Mababaya <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab

      Wisdom Islamic School Philippines/Saudi Arabia
      www.youtube.com/infowishes
      .

      Friday, 29 July 2016

      POEM: Before You Judge Others, Judge Yourself.

      In The Name Of Allah
      The Most Gracious The Most Merciful


      That sister's friendliness does not mean 'flirting',
      Nor does her silence mean she's into something.
      Don't think she's this and that until there's clear proof.
      Before you judge some, put yourself in their shoes.

      That man's long beard does not mean he's so righteous
      If he prays when he's seen and is impious.
      Before you judge, know - and put things in their place.
      Don't be quick to trust nor suspect someone's ways.

      Who are you to claim that their marriage lacks love?
      She could be in his thoughts he always thinks of,
      Unable to express himself through sweetness,
      While she's forgiving of his flaws and weakness.

      Don't think she's arrogant when she walks by you,
      She may not have heard, or she had lots to do.
      Those brothers without beards - don't think they don't pray.
      Don't make strangers' attitudes affect your day.

      When one seems aloof, they're thinking or just shy.
      If some friends did not visit in a long while,
      Grant excuse - time or transport they could not find.
      Careful when you judge, the truthful don't belie.

      Only Allah can judge, He sees everything.
      Every motive and notion is known to Him.
      Should you judge for good reason, know all the facts.
      Before you criticize, admit what you lack.

      May Allah the All-Knowing forgive our sins,
      Our neglect, our delays, all our wrongdoings,
      May Allah replace our mistakes with good deeds,
      With right belief and our trust in Him. Ameen.

      When It's Okay To Judge Through Enjoining Right And Forbidding Wrong
      www.niqablovers.blogspot.com/2012/10/whats-with-this-dont-judge-me.html

      "Judging Or Criticizing Others" In Islam
       www.en.islamtoday.net/artshow-423-3086.htm

      Allah the Almighty knows best.

      May Allah the Most Merciful accept all our good deeds, forgive all our wrongdoings, answer our du'as and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in Jannatul Firdaus next to Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam. Allahumma Innaka 'Afuwwun Kareemun tuhibbul 'afwa fa'fu 'annaa. Ameen.

      Remember all Muslims in your du'as :)

      Wasalaam~
      Mariam M. <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab Mababaya

      Thursday, 30 June 2016

      SONNET: The Science Of Loving Your Husband

      In The Name Of Allah
      The Most Gracious The Most Merciful


      Love your husband for Allah sincerely,
      And take this duty as his wife with love -
      What you like about him Allah can see, 
      He's your soul mate you oft think and dream of.

      You know him like the name God chose for you,
      You sense the feelings at times he conceals,
      You understand his speech, silence, each move,
      And the love between you stays truly real.

      Because you love him, to you he appeals -
      His jokes make you laugh and joys you can share -
      With God Allah you've signed a noble deal
      To stay loyal to your man far and near.

      Love for Allah's sake invites bliss and peace,
      While pretentious love gives up easily.

      What may cause you to love someone?
      You may love someone because they are family or it is your job to love them for Allah only, when in some ways you fill each other's gaps in life or sometimes help fulfil one another's needs, or when you both understand each other so well because of many shared experiences and similarities, or you love them still because you appreciate their good deeds, favours and sweet memories.

      Allah the Almighty knows best.

      May Allah the Most Merciful accept all our good deeds, forgive all our wrongdoings, answer our du'as and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in Jannatul Firdaus next to Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam. Allahumma Innaka 'Afuwwun Kareemun tuhibbul 'afwa fa'fu 'annaa. Ameen.

      Remember all Muslims in your du'as :)

      Wasalaam~
      Mariam M. <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab Mababaya

      Monday, 27 June 2016

      SONNET: The Love Of A Loyal Wife

      In The Name Of Allah
      The Most Gracious The Most Merciful


      The Love Of A Loyal Wife:
      She married him purely for Allah's sake,
      With sincere intentions to do her best
      In being his gift who loves him always -
      His wife and friend who wants all his needs met.

      Even though he's imperfect she recalls
      Every good thing and memory of him.
      By his positive side she's still enthralled,
      And of his human flaws she's forgiving.

      If ever he neglects in any way,
      She takes note of how Allah is Watching.
      What keep her going are love, patience, faith
      And her wish to meet Allah in Heaven.

      A loyal wife is a gem worth keeping,
      Her love remains though to some he's nothing.

      Three lessons I've learned this Ramadan:
      1. Anything done sincerely to please Allah becomes easier and blessed. 2. Sharing what you can share without expecting anything in return except for Allah's pleasure and rewards gives you a nice feeling that InshaAllah you have done another good deed that will InshaAllah be among many means of being welcome in Jannah Paradise. 3. Forgiving a Muslim for Allah's sake while understanding that Allah deals with all justly is better than being awkwardly aloof and arrogant. Allah hates those servants who behave arrogantly unworthily.

      May Allah the Most Merciful accept all our good deeds and fasting, and may Allah the Most Forgiving forgive all our sins and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in Jannatul Firdaus near Him and His noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam. Allahumma Innaka 'Afuwwun tuhibbul 'afwa fa'fu 'annaa. Ameen.

      Wasalaam~
      Mariam M. <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab 

      Monday, 30 May 2016

      POEM: To Understand Sinners Is Knowing Their True Motives

      In The Name Of Allah
      The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

      Seek first to understand then be understood.

      You see these 'fakes' obeying shaytan's puppets,
      Making gestures that prove they can't be trusted,
      Teaching misconduct, supporting injustice,
      Understand that these 'fakes' are best avoided.

      Wrongdoers who commit wrongs once in a while,
      Who sin by mistake, or don't know yet what's right,
      Show mercy, try to guide them, share your advice,
      Note: If they're too stubborn, don't give them your time.

      As for those with whom you have close relations,
      Who at times may neglect you from coercion,
      Grant them fairness or more space, understand them,
      Mention them in sincere du'as now and then.

      So when a few are aloof, they are but fake,
      When their false or forced acts are sensed miles away.
      Now when one seems genuinely led astray,
      Be generous enough to show the Straight Way.

      Understand, when some sin just for attention,
      After advice choose another direction.
      With the lost who need help still try to guide them.
      Love only those who want Allah and Heaven.

      Some Good Deeds To Do In Ramadan Checklist:

      [   ] Always say the morning and evening adhkaarAllah and 
      pray more Sunnah prayers including Salat Ad-Duha and Qiyam Al-Layl.
      [   ] Read from the Noble Qur'an after the obligatory salahs and whenever 
      you can to InshaAllah succeed in completing reading the whole Qur'an in Ramadan.
      [   ] Visit husband/friends/relatives for Allah's sake.
      [   ] Share recipes and feed some fasting Muslims when you are able.
      [   ] Keep seeking Islamic knowledge and 
      remember all Muslims in your du'as/supplications.

      May Allah the Most Merciful accept all our good deeds and fasting, May Allah the Most Forgiving forgive all our sins, and May Allah the Most Loving reunite us with His righteous friends in Jannatul Firdaus near Him and His noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.

      Wasalaam~
      Mariam M. <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab

      Sunday, 29 May 2016

      SONNET: Genuine Love Of A First Wife

      In The Name Of Allah
      The Most Gracious The Most Merciful


      My loving you dear husband Nomayri
      Is unconditional, true and sincere -
      A love so faithful, for Allah only,
      I'm your first wife - loving you far or near.

      Your work and weaknesses I understand,
      Your busyness and tears I also know,
      Your flaws at times are like a helpless man
      On wheelchair yet my love for you still glows.

      Such is loyalty - a gem so divine,
      From your first who lets you wed up to four.
      Thank you for sweet memories, good old times,
      Lessons you taught like cooking, and much more.

      Disregard lies the jealous say, and know -
      On Judgement Day, truth and justice are shown.

      "Marriage is not a joke to be played with or taken for granted. Marriage is a duty and beautiful unison of husband and wife, embarking on a journey to God Allah while learning from one another lessons to be shared with others. Marriage is a responsibility which Allah may question you about on the Day of Judgement."

      Allah the Almighty knows best.

      May Allah the Most Merciful forgive all our sins, accept all our good deeds and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in Jannatul Firdaus near Allah and His noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.


      Wasalaam~
      Mariam M. <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab

      Sunday, 8 May 2016

      SONNET: My Only Husband May Marry Up To Four And It's Okay

      In The Name Of Allah
      The Most Gracious The Most Merciful


      Allahu A'lam. In a world where truth
      Is rarely found and lies are prominent,
      Where the sincere and truthful are but few,
      I'm pleased with you as my spouse, dear husband.

      Though with the fakes I mirror their bad traits
      Or at times I avoid them when it's best,
      I choose to remain loyal night and day,
      With loyalty far beyond east and west.

      No need to prove that you love me, I know
      And feel the language of your tears and thoughts,
      Through dreams and memories your love is shown,
      You're my only spouse whom I oft think of.

      Wed third or fourth, with Allah's Will I pray
       To meet Allah smiling near Heaven's gates.


      May Allah the Most Merciful forgive all our sins, accept all our good deeds, answer all our good du'as and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in Jannatul Firdaus near Him and His noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.

      Note: Fast more Sunnah fasts in the month of Sha'baan before the noble month of Ramadan, with wisdom speak and be silent, while remembering all
      Muslims in your good du'as :)

      Wasalaam~
      Mariam M. <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab

      Friday, 8 April 2016

      SONNET: We Know What It Means To Be Loyal :)

      In The Name Of Allah
      The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

      Four wives or three, or even two, he's blessed -
      That man who knows well the Prophet's Sunnah,
      Whose marriages were by Allah witnessed,
      Whose love is vast for the sake of Allah.

      Each wife's love is unique yet real and strong,
      Each one loving, faithful and forgiving,
      Longing to have Heaven where they belong,
      In Allah Almighty truly trusting.

      "Allah is the One Whom I live to please,
      Don't need fellow servants to validate,
      Forget false remarks of those who envy,
      Ignore shaytan and what his puppets say."

      Each wife blessed with loyalty understands
      Her special role, gifts, and her only man.

      Among the best treasures a wife gives her husband besides her faith, Islamic knowledge and wisdom, is her loyalty
      and loving him for Allah's sake unconditionally :)


      L: Love truly, unconditionally for Allah's sake.
      O: Overlook and forgive your lover's flaws and mistakes.
      Y: You are each other's gifts, lessons, map and loving light.
      A: Appreciate both speech and silence, trust day and night.
      L: Leave fakes and liars, their loud jealousy recognize.

      May Allah Almighty make us among His righteous friends whom He will welcome in Jannatul Firdaus near Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.

      www.youtube.com/infowishes (old youtube channel)
      Wasalaam~
      Mariam Mababaya <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab

      POEM: 23 Reasons To Smile

      In The Name Of Allah
      The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

      Twenty-three reasons to smile for Allah's sake:
      One: Smile; it's Sunnah. Two: Smile; it's charity.
      Three: Smile; thank Allah for another new day,
      And for allowing you to do more good deeds.

      Four: Smile because you're Muslim, on the Right Way.
      Five: Smile; it keeps you shining each day and night.
      Six: Smile, knowing Allah is with you always.
      Seven: Smiling adds beauty without a price.

      Eight: Even if some have done you any wrong,
      Smile, knowing that God Allah is the Most Just.
      On Judgement Day, all shall see where they belong.
      Nine: Smile; rely on Allah and in Him trust.

      Ten: Smile, as Allah chose you to read these lines.
      One sign Allah loves you is gaining knowledge.
      Eleven: If some won't listen, it's alright,
      You have tried your best, good deeds still encourage.

      Twelve: If you haven't traveled to far places,
      Smile as you recall you're on a great journey.
      We're on the same trip till we see Allah's Face,
      So smile; on the righteous Allah has Mercy.

      Thirteen: If some dislike you out of envy,
      Or because the differences are a lot,
      Smile; you're here to please none but Allah Only.
      Allah's Love and Guidance are more than enough.

      Fourteen: If some have left you out, don't worry.
      There are special friends who await you up there.
      Smile; just laugh at 'liars' who claim you're 'lonely'.
      God Allah knows all well, and He knows what's fair.

      Fifteen: If you're saddened by how they're so few,
      How the good and believers are not many,
      To be among the guided Allah chose you,
      Smile, as you recognize the term 'VIP'.

      Sixteen: If at times you wonder why not you,
      Why won't you have the same gifts as so and so,
      Smile; Allah's Justice and Wisdom are all true.
      What His servants need most Allah Only knows.

       Seventeen: If you've lost relatives or friends,
      Or was not given a chance to say goodbye,
      Smile; in Paradise you can see them again,
      Jannatul-Firdaus: best place where we unite.

      Eighteen: If your marriage is not that perfect,
      Or if on earth you haven't found a spouse yet,
      Smile; note that Allah loves those who are patient,
      Your special prize may be in Heaven instead.

      Nineteen: If your room is not something special,
      Or your house is not as grand as other homes,
      Smile; we're Allah's servants, humble and grateful,
       Traveling to Heaven, more precious than gold.

      Twenty: If fancy food you don't always eat,
      Smile; remember those who have much less or none,
      In Jannah is where all pleasures you can meet,
      Allah does reward for good things said or done.

      Twenty-one: If you think you have no talent,
      No special skills, no beauty or something neat,
      Smile; count your countless blessings, try, think again,
      In so many ways you're helpful and unique.

      Twenty-two: Smile; what goes around comes around.
      Those who did you wrong will find their faults someday.
      On Judgement Day truth prevails and lost is found.
      It's a fact that most are misled and astray.

      Twenty-three: You're lucky you're on the Straight Way.
      Smile; talk to Allah the True Friend we must trust.
      Do better than none but yourself yesterday,
      You're okay, what matters most is Allah's Love.

      May Allah the Most Merciful and Most Kind
      Reward us for good deeds we do for His sake,
      And may we meet Allah while at us He smiles,
      For serving Allah in what we do and say. [Ameen.]

      Include us and all Muslims in your good du'as brothers and sisters in Islam :)

      May Allah Almighty make us among His righteous friends whom He will welcome in Jannatul Firdaus near Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.

      www.youtube.com/infowishes (old youtube channel)
      Wasalaam~
      Mariam M. <3 Nomayri