SONNET: What Past Friendships Can Teach Us

In The Name Of Allah

The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

As I pass by old friends' profiles online -
Some secrets divulge and I realize:
Some friends move on as their paths change with time,
Others misguided by their loathsome pride.
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"Friends" who quickly leave never meant to stay;
True friends stick by you though they're miles away.
Through some lost friendships Allah wants you safe -
From bad influence or sins that remain.
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As people change, ensure you do what's right,
Stay on the Straight Way towards Allah's Light.
With sinful friends don't be preoccupied,
With dignity walk away from their lies.
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To long-lost friends: Though not close here I'll be,
Willing to forgive and guide with mercy.

Guiding Your Friends To Be With Allah
 www.sunnahonline.com/library/contemporary-issues/111-bring-your-friends-closer-to-allah-12-tips-for-muslim-youth

To Stay Friends Or Walk Away From Certain People
www.islamqa.info/en/106441

5 Reasons why some people may no longer 
connect with each other:
1] Misunderstanding on one or both sides which was not settled properly, due to arrogance or inability to understand each other's point of view.
2] Deliberate lack of interest or communication between the two parties, either because of too many differences or doubting that the other may not accept them as friends.
3] When one is right and the other wrong, when one has become religious and the other is still addicted to certain sins, when one is humble and the other arrogant - good usually cannot get along with what is bad.
4] Change of ways, goals and interests - when you can't find each other agreeing on the same thing it may be difficult to click and bond.
5] Forgetfulness - the person you try to reconnect with on facebook may have forgotten who you are but should you ever meet again Insha-Allah personally they may befriend you like they did before.

Why Allah is The Only True Friend whose Love and Friendship we can share:
Allah the Most Forgiving readily forgives you so long as you constantly return to Him. No matter where you are, what time it is and what mood you're in, Allah the All-Knowing is always there to listen to you and grant you solutions with wisdom. Unlike some people who get tired of too many requests, Allah loves you more as you cry to Him more, talk to Him more often and say your du'as.

Allah the Almighty knows best.

May Allah the Most Merciful accept all our good deeds, forgive all our wrongdoings, answer our du'as and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in Jannatul Firdaus next to Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam. Allahumma Innaka 'Afuwwun Kareemun tuhibbul 'afwa fa'fu 'annaa. Ameen.

Da'wah According To The Qur'an And The Prophet Muhammad's Sunnah

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Wasalaam~

Mariam <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab

PICTURES: Love Messages For Husband And Wife

In The Name Of Allah

The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

Wedding gift idea: Mugs for husband and wife

"I love my husband" and "I love my wife"
Message in Arabic language

In English language:

Other love messages you may choose
(to print on mugs, t-shirts, photo frames, fans, bags, pillows, key holders and other accessories)
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"Blissfully married" "Joyfully married"
"Me with my husband" "Me with my wife"
"Married to my other half"
"Stay married stay blessed"
"Keep calm stay married"
"Always with my husband/wife" "Married and marvelous"
"Marriage is Sunnah"
"M: Mercy • A: Affection • R: Responsibility • R: Remembrance • I: Inspiration • A: Adventures • G: Guidance • E: Encourage"

May Allah the Most Merciful always bless our marriages, forgive all our wrongdoings, accept all our good deeds, grant us more wisdom and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in Jannatul Firdaus near Allah and His noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.

Wasalaam~

Mariam <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab

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ISLAMIC NOTES: Sonnet On Why I Still Love My Only Spouse And 3 Tips On Maintaining Your Love For Someone

In The Name Of Allah

The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

To the man whom Allah gave me to guide,
The only guy I can take as my spouse:
From your wife your feelings you cannot hide,
When you're hurt, amused, worried, or aroused.

With Allah's Mercy I understand you,
I know some of your acts may be enforced,
So for Allah's sake I'll always love you,
Love's doors to forgive you I will not close.

God is our Witness to our marriage true.
Why I still love you Allah rightly knows;
He knows I understand all that you do.
On Judgment Day all truths will be exposed.

May Allah forgive you dear Nomayri,
And bless our marriage, and my loyalty.
Ameen.

Note:
Tips on how not to hate someone you're obliged to love:

1] Understand your relations with this person. Who are you to them and they to you? In what way are they of value? When it comes to marriage, one spouse should at least be in the upper hand of being willing to forgive while avoiding bad traits such as arrogance and ingratitude.
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2] If you want to love this person still, remember all the good times you've had together, their favors done to you, and appreciate the sweet memories of you two, or recall the many common likes you both share.
What pleasant qualities do they have which you can't help but admire? Can you count the times they made you laugh or smile?
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3] You can love a Muslim for Allah's sake if the benefits of being close friends with them outweigh whatever mistake they may have done. Know that all actions will inshaAllah be rewarded according to their actual intentions and motive.
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May Allah the Most Merciful always forgive us, accept all our good deeds, guide us to all that He loves, and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in
Jannatul Firdaus near Him and His noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Ameen.

Wasalaam~
Mariam Mababaya <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab

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SONNET: The Insecure V.S. The Confident

In The Name Of Allah

The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

When this shopper bumps their cart into yours,
Or some ‪salespeople are late to respond,
And they don't say sorry for seeming coarse,
Note - they're ‪insecure or plain ignorant.
.:.
They witness you're better so they act ‪‎rude,
They're freaks of nature uneducated.
To be unkind is to be insecure.
Bad traits from the ‪jealous are expected.
.:.
The confident ones like to lift you up,
Enjoy seeing you ‪smile, can give advice,
At anyone's mishaps would never laugh,
Are wisely nice and can apologize.
.:.
Stay friendly, confident for Allah's sake,
Grateful that you're with those on the Right Way.

Some Tips For Good Communication With People
www.productivemuslim.com/sunnah-communicate-effectively/

Some Ahadith Regarding Good Manners In Islam
 www.islamicity.com/mosque/sunnah/bukhari/073.sbt.html

Allah the Almighty knows best.

May Allah the Most Merciful accept all our good deeds, forgive all our wrongdoings, answer our du'as and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in Jannatul Firdaus next to Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam. Allahumma Innaka 'Afuwwun Kareemun tuhibbul 'afwa fa'fu 'annaa. Ameen.

Remember all Muslims in your du'as :)

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Wasalaam~

Mariam M. <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab Mababaya

SONNET: Avoid Making Fun Of Others Out Of Jealousy

In The Name Of Allah

The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

Allah the Almighty commanded us
To avoid teasing and vain mockery.
As Allah's servants, don't think you're the best,
Don't deny your flaws and deficiencies.

Loathsome it is to name-call and misjudge,
To obnoxiously make fun of others.
Jealous are those who ridicule with grudge.
Sure of themselves - who lift one another.

 Don't make fun of some for being plus-size,
For seeming poor, unkempt, weird or just plain -
Your claims may haunt you and you'll realize
That they're better than you in myriad ways.

Allah and His Angels - we're on their side,
With God we mock satan's envious lies.

3 Facts About Making Fun Of People:
1. Making fun of others is childish and is a bad habit of the insecure or jealous.
2. Don't ridicule some people for something they can't change like how Allah created them.
Never misjudge without knowing their whole story. Otherwise you're the ignorant one who was brought up despicably by uneducated folks who were that inadequate at teaching you good manners.
3. What you make fun of, as well as your wrongdoings, may Insha-Allah find their way back to you if your teasing was uncalled-for or unjust, in this world and/or on Judgment Day.

Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam advised us saying, “Do not express malicious joy towards a Muslim brother or sister's misfortune, for Allah may have mercy on him/her and you may be stricken by the very thing you made fun of.”
(Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi)

Islam Questions And Answers: When Joking Is Permissible In Islam
www.islamqa.info/en/22170

The Ideal Personality Of Every Muslim
www.islamweb.net/en/article/65223/the-ideal-personality-of-the-muslim

Allah the Almighty knows best.

May Allah the Most Merciful accept all our good deeds, forgive all our wrongdoings, answer our du'as and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in Jannatul Firdaus next to Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam. Allahumma Innaka 'Afuwwun Kareemun tuhibbul 'afwa fa'fu 'annaa. Ameen.

Remember all Muslims in your du'as :)

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Wasalaam~

Mariam M. <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab Mababaya

POEM: Before You Judge Others, Judge Yourself.

In The Name Of Allah

The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

That sister's friendliness does not mean 'flirting',
Nor does her silence mean she's into something.
Don't think she's this and that until there's clear proof.
Before you judge some, put yourself in their shoes.

That man's long beard does not mean he's so righteous
If he prays when he's seen and is impious.
Before you judge, know - and put things in their place.
Don't be quick to trust nor suspect someone's ways.

Who are you to claim that their marriage lacks love?
She could be in his thoughts he always thinks of,
Unable to express himself through sweetness,
While she's forgiving of his flaws and weakness.

Don't think she's arrogant when she walks by you,
She may not have heard, or she had lots to do.
Those brothers without beards - don't think they don't pray.
Don't make strangers' attitudes affect your day.

When one seems aloof, they're thinking or just shy.
If some friends did not visit in a long while,
Grant excuse - time or transport they could not find.
Careful when you judge, the truthful don't belie.

Only Allah can judge, He sees everything.
Every motive and notion is known to Him.
Should you judge for good reason, know all the facts.
Before you criticize, admit what you lack.

May Allah the All-Knowing forgive our sins,
Our neglect, our delays, all our wrongdoings,
May Allah replace our mistakes with good deeds,
With right belief and our trust in Him. Ameen.

When It's Okay To Judge Through Enjoining Right And Forbidding Wrong
www.niqablovers.blogspot.com/2012/10/whats-with-this-dont-judge-me.html

"Judging Or Criticizing Others" In Islam
 www.en.islamtoday.net/artshow-423-3086.htm

Allah the Almighty knows best.

May Allah the Most Merciful accept all our good deeds, forgive all our wrongdoings, answer our du'as and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in Jannatul Firdaus next to Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam. Allahumma Innaka 'Afuwwun Kareemun tuhibbul 'afwa fa'fu 'annaa. Ameen.

Remember all Muslims in your du'as :)

Wisdom Islamic School Philippines

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Wasalaam~

Mariam M. <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab Mababaya

PICTURES: Simple Eid Gift Ideas || POEM: Ramadan Lessons

In The Name Of Allah

The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

Some Ideas For 

Simple Eid Packs Of Sweets

Note: For Allah's sake 

Avoid drawing animates/anime and realistic images of beings as figure making is not allowed in Islam. Only Allah is Al-Khaliq Who creates what He Wills.

POEM: What Really Matters (Ramadan Lessons)

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In Ramadan if you could not read the whole Qur'an,

At least you've tried your best reciting once in a while.

If there was that time you missed Suhoor or woke up late,

At least you fasted and you prayed despite your desires.

If you could not attend a special Iftaar event,

At least you fasted while Allah's Angels pray for you.

If you wish to do charity but cannot do so,

You still earn reward for intentions sincere and true.

If you are a sister who has excuse not to fast,

At least you earn reward by giving the fasting food.

If you're in your period and can't pray the Eid prayers,

For attending the Eid khutbahs Allah will bless you.

If you wish to do Da'wah but may not have the means,

Maintain your good manners, doing Da'wah through actions.

If you long to help those needy Muslims but you can't,

With Allah's Will you can affect through supplications.

If in your area you can't find a true righteous friend,

Allah, His Angels, and friends in Heaven await you.

If you seldom get responses on a post/update,

Recall good deeds are for Allah Who Will reward you.

If when some don't take your advice when you enjoin right,

At least you did what you could and corrected the wrong.

If you're the only female in niqaab or hijaab,

At least you know Allah loves you and your faith stays strong.

If some people you know are aloof or won't forgive,

At least you're not the arrogant one who's led astray.

Please Only God Allah. Don't mind what His servants say.

What really matters: Allah loves you, you've tried your best,

And for your Islam Jannah is your eternal place.

Allah the Almighty knows best.

May Allah the Most Merciful accept all our good deeds, forgive all our wrongdoings, answer our du'as and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in Jannatul Firdaus next to Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam. Allahumma Innaka 'Afuwwun Kareemun tuhibbul 'afwa fa'fu 'annaa. Ameen.

Etiquette Of Eid 
www.islamqa.info/en/36442

Some Sunnahs Of Eid
 www.islamqa.info/en/49014

Remember all Muslims in your du'as :)

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Wasalaam~

Mariam M. <3 Nomayri AbdulWahab